The Three Desires Seminar

“You will hear some things you’ve never heard before — this will turn your understanding of yourself upside down. You will never see yourself or others the same again.” Dave Bender

QUESTION: Do you know why you’re having conflict? In your counseling, is your counselor helping you see the deepest reasons for your conflict?

Conflict comes from your DESIRES, and the desires of others. Are you learning this in your counseling or therapy?

If your counselor, marriage counselor, or couple’s therapist is not teaching you this, they are missing a key diagnostic piece of counseling and therapy.

A good counselor helps people understand WHY they have conflict. If your counselor or therapist is unable to do this, then he or she will also typically struggle to give you good solutions.

Here’s a harder question: Do you know what those desires are?

Once upon a time, two young fish swam past an older fish, and the old fish asked:

“How’s the water boys?”

Farther downstream, one young fish turned to the other and said, “What’s water?”

In much the same way, most people don’t understand that they are swimming in the waters of their own human desires every day.

They’re immersed in their desires and yet clueless as to what those desires are. It’s probably even safe to say that most people rarely consider what drives them to action on a daily basis.

QUESTION: Do you really know what moves you? Can you label it?

Do you really know why do you do what you do?

If you understand your desires, you will finally understand yourself and others.

The Three Desires Seminar crystallizes the diagnostic method used in our counseling center and reveals the deepest “why” underlying human behavior.

At the seminar, Dave Bender will reveal these desires to you step by step. You will never see yourself or anyone else the same again.

If you apply what you learn at this seminar, you WILL see immediate, positive impact on all your relationships.

Not only that, you will also understand much more clearly what motivates others around you. The world around you will make much more sense and you’ll see stuff that others don’t see.

One hour of marriage counseling, marriage therapy, or family therapy will cost you $80-$250 in Green Bay. This seminar delivers five hours of eye-opening material for less than the cost of a typical one-hour counseling session.

The Three Desires Seminar event is presented by The Counseling Center at Bay City in Green Bay twice each year, once in April and once in October. Visit threedesires.org to learn more.

Again, can your counselor, therapist, marriage counselor, marriage therapist, tell you WHY you do what you do? If not, they will probably struggle to provide solutions that work. In other words, if they can’t give you the diagnosis, they might struggle providing the cure.