Wisdom. Care. Hope.
Nothing is more obvious than the fact that life can sometimes be hard.
In those troubles, humans shouldn’t be Lone Rangers. Even the Lone Ranger wasn’t really alone—he had help.
We were carefully designed by God to find help and strength in strong and trusting relationships with God and others.
If you’re considering counseling for the first time, you should know that’s a sign of strength and not weakness.
Good relationships make us stronger.
Counseling is a unique, relational process based in a trusting relationship with someone who has the wisdom to help you.
- A GOOD COUNSELOR walks with you in compassion, providing insight into your motives, behaviors, and relationships.
- A GOOD COUNSELOR is a compassionate and wise friend who has the courage to help you see your blind spots.
- A GOOD COUNSELOR will help you understand the desires and thoughts that may be shaping your life and causing your problems.
Does it seem unusual that someone would help another by using wisdom from the Bible? But what about psychology? A good psychologist can provide observational data, but biblical counseling provides the deepest insights into the human soul and provides real solutions to the hardest problems we face. The Bible will show you who you are, who God is (He’s your maker), and teach you how we’re designed to relate to God and others.
Yes, the Bible has been around a long time, but you’ll be surprised at how relevant it is and how it speaks to the problems of your life. Biblical counselor David Powlison PhD.* connects the Bible, counseling, and life:
“As we look more closely at life, it becomes clearer and clearer that Scripture is about counseling: …explanations of behavior and emotion, interpretation of external sufferings and influences, definitions of workable solutions…these are all matters to which God speaks directly.”
QUESTION: What’s the most printed book of all time?
ANSWER: The Bible, 5 billion copies. The second most printed book doesn’t even come close (it’s Don Quixote).
There’s a good reason so many people over hundreds of years have wanted a copy of the Bible. It tells of Jesus who came to solve the biggest problems of mankind. The Bible provides the right answers to our deepest questions. It can help you with your problems and answer your questions about the past, the present, and the future.
We’re not saying that change comes easily, but the answers you find will be right and deeply helpful. You’ll see.
The Counseling Center at Bay City provides wisdom, care, and hope…
W I S D O M
Wisdom is good understanding of a situation and the ability to provide solutions. Without wisdom counseling will always fail.
C A R E
Care is simply the display of kindness and concern for others in times of need. People usually won’t listen to someone who doesn’t care.
H O P E
Hope is an expectation of good things to come. Our counselors will provide a sense of hope. They will help you see that better days are coming.
Counseling We Provide
- Marriage counseling
- Relationships counseling
- Premarital counseling
- Family counseling
- Parenting help
- Anxiety and depression
- Anger issues
- Crisis of faith
- Sexual issues
- Sexual abuse (as a child or adult)
Your First Three Sessions
The first three meetings usually follow the pattern below. (Note: If you want just one appointment, please let us know.)
Assessment & Solutions
Usually, beginning with the third session, your counseling will be customized to your specific difficulty.
The counseling process is flexible. Your counselor will plan each session beforehand, but that plan will be adapted as necessary during each session.
Q: What’s the cost?
A: Our counseling is always free. From time to time, people choose to give a gift to the Center, but it is never requested or expected.
Q: Where are you located?
A: The address is 1840 Bond Street, Green Bay, WI 54303. We’re on the northwest side of Green Bay next to Helen Keller School, and near VanBoxtel RV Supermart.
Q: Where do I enter the building?
A: You’ll see a door in the middle of the building with the word “Offices” above it. On school days you’ll need to press a doorbell inside the entryway and the receptionist will buzz you in.
Q: How long does a typical session last?
A: We try to keep each session to 55 minutes, but some sessions may last longer.
Q: How long does the counseling process last?
A: Some people want one meeting for some quick advice and that’s OK with us. Depending on the severity of the problem, counseling usually lasts anywhere from two months to two years. Every person and situation is different; we’ll work at your pace. Your dedication to the hard work of personal change is almost always the key component in the speed of the changes you want to see. Please know that there’s nothing magical about “the counseling hour” or the counseling process. You should expect to do some hard work.
Q: How often will we meet?
A: Most of our counselors prefer to meet once every week or two weeks. This will depend on your schedule, and on how many persons the counselor is seeing at the time.
Q: Can I drop in for an appointment?
A: Our counseling is by appointment only due to the scheduling limitations of our counselors.
Q: What is counseling like?
A: Imagine it like talking with a good friend who wants to help you, but please know that parts of it may be hard. Some conversations may be uncomfortable, and there are no “easy-buttons” for the difficulties of life.
Q: What should I expect in marriage counseling? Does it work?
A: Marriage counseling is hard work, but your marriage problems can be fixed if you’re willing to work on yourself rather than your partner. Every marriage counseling situation is like a fingerprint in that each is different, but marriage problems always originate in the same place: human desires. You must be able to answer this question: “What do I really want?” This approach simplifies counseling and cuts through a lot of fluff. Working through the Three Desires Self-Assessment always brings the real problems to the surface.
Q: What if I’m taking medications to help my problem?
A: Medications are helpful in some situations, but there are real concerns about them too. Sometimes meds don’t actually help. Sometimes the results are simply the “placebo effect.” Sometimes the side-effects aren’t worth it.
There are other concerns: do this Google search.
PLEASE NOTE: It is unwise to discontinue a medication without a doctor’s guidance.
These two books may be helpful:
- Unhinged, The Trouble with Psychiatry—A Doctor’s Revelations about a Profession in Crisis, Daniel Carlat, M.D.
- Medication Madness: A Psychiatrist Exposes the Dangers of Mood-Altering Medications, Peter Breggin, M.D.
Here’s one of our concerns, and we’ll use anxiety and depression to illustrate: If a drug “fixes” your problem then you may never address the thinking patterns that actually took you there in the first place. (NOTE: Anxiety and depression can result from medical problems, but more often than not, anxiety and depression are the result of self-centered desires, thoughts, and actions.)
PLEASE NOTE: If you’re struggling with anxiety and depression, you should consider getting a full medical check-up.
Q: Who will my counselor be?
A: After your initial consultation, the Director of Counseling will connect you with the counselor who is the best fit for you. At this time, our Director does about 65% of our counseling. We train our lay-counselors on-site to meet specific needs from a Christian, biblical perspective.
Q: You train your own counselors? That seems unusual. Is that really adequate?
A: Every Wednesday evening our counselors, and counselors-in-training, meet together for training and collaboration. It may seem odd to some that a church counseling center would train counselors, but it actually makes perfect sense when you pause to think about it. These are people who love people and want to care for others for all the right motives. Please know that we take the care of people seriously, and therefore have been able to help many people over the years. Click here for stories and reviews from those we’ve counseled.
Please know that we’re cautious when it comes to some of the difficult and deep psychiatric problems we sometimes see in society. Sometimes we think it best to refer people to someone else. If you’re not comfortable seeking faith-based counseling at a church, you may want to see this list or consult with your own medical group or doctor to find help elsewhere.