Most people struggle to take that first step when needing counseling.

The following wise advice provides helpful guidance as you consider next steps.

Counseling is an interactive process which is established and maintained on the basis of trust. Honest and open dialogue between a counselor and a counselee is one of the most important components of building trust.

If you cannot establish this kind of foundation early on, so that you are confident the counselor will be wise, biblical, loving, and faithful in your interaction, you may need to look elsewhere.

Here are eight suggested questions to ask your prospective counselor or therapist. You could ask these questions in person or copy and paste these questions into an email that you send to the prospective counselor or therapist.

QUESTION #1: How would you describe your approach to counseling/therapy?
How do you understand people’s problems? How do you help them grow and change through counseling? Please describe the process.

QUESTION #2: What books or resources do you recommend on a regular basis?
What books have most influenced your approach to counseling?

QUESTION #3: Are you a Christian?
How does your faith affect your view and practice of counseling?

QUESTION #4: Do you bring Christian truth into your counseling practice?
How? What role does the Bible play?

QUESTION #5: Do you pray with those you counsel?

QUESTION #6: Do you attend church?
If so, where? How long have you attended there?

QUESTION #7: What is your educational and professional background?
What role does it play?

QUESTION #8: Are you married? Do you have children?
How does your marriage and family situation affect how you counsel people?

The answers you receive to these questions should help you as you take further steps to find someone who can help you.

This page draws from material developed by CCEF’s David Powlison and Family Life of Little Rock, AR.